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Because Feeld encourages you to be so clear about your desires, communication and hard boundaries are not just a good sign but essential. It's simply the culture of the app. Of course, Feeld isn't flawless, and I wouldn't want to meet up with most of the users I come across (there are weirdos in every corner of the internet, including sex-positive ones; not to mention, the app itself isn't perfect, either... it can get really buggy). But each person I did get together with IRL-from unicorns to "regular" straight cis dudes-delivered precisely what they transparently promised. In one particular case, Feeld delivered much more.

Amanda K. and I initially matched because I was looking for a unicorn, and she was looking to be one. We met up for a glass of wine, just the two of us, while the guy I was dating was out of town (going on three-way dates http://datingranking.net/illinois/ in public to see if the vibe is right for a threesome is a whole other story). We talked about the play she was staging, the book I'd just written, and our cross-country travels, in addition to my teacher-student fantasy, her newfound affinity for dd/lg (Daddy Dom/Little Girl role play, remember?), and what we were looking for in a threesome. .. the guy and I broke up), we should absolutely still be friends. Fast-forward a year, and I now consider this person-still labeled "Amanda Feeld Qt" in my phone-one of my dearest confidantes.

I reached out to some higher-ups at Feeld asking whether or not it's unusual to meet sex-free friends on their app

From the first five minutes Amanda K. and I met, I found it incredibly refreshing to chat casually-without judgment-about my unique sex life with another young female experiencing something similar. After all, as inclusive as our culture is slowly becoming, it's still not exactly "normal" or even safe to be an openly sex-positive woman in your 20s.