Speaking of always scammers or “cat-fish” sizes
Such, they could genuinely wish to become head to, but need money on the plane ticket very first. Otherwise it downright ask for currency or expensive gift suggestions on the sub to keep its “training” otherwise show their distribution. (I am not talking about ethical monetary domination, which uses a lengthy reputation of faith.)
Something else a sandwich will perform is require records regarding almost every other subs otherwise professionals on the Bdsm society. If the a good Dom does not want to provide recommendations or states the earlier sandwich was “psycho”, that is a red-flag that they'll be concealing one thing.
Composing your own advertisement is courage-racking or even know where to begin.